COMMITMENT

COMMITMENT
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When you love someone — like really love someone, It’s not a matter of convenience. It’s not only something you feel when times are good, it is the very foundation of staying together when times are not as good. When they are bad, when life is tough. That’s when you pull those you love closer, not push them away.

You are committing to someone’s whole self. You are not just committing to them under the condition that they stay young and beautiful — because they will not and neither will you. You are not just committing to them until someone better comes along – you are committing to the idea while neither they nor your relationship is perfect, THIS is the person you want to be with. You are committing to their very being.

You do not commit to someone because things are perfect, You commit to them in spite of the fact that they’re not. 👫

Commitment is not the act of losing your freedom; but exercising it to choose who you want to give your most valuable gifts to: Your time, Your emotions and Your heart.

An illusion leading to delusion.

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EMOTIONS ➖ without them, nothing would seem real because nothing would feel real.

Emotions does not exist outside of us (conscious beings) and for this reason, if love is nothing but an emotion, then love DOES NOT actually exists. I have experienced connections that rapidly fades into memory. For this reason, I have understand that feelings aren’t what makes love, Love. Emotions are just the interpretations when we experience love. This is why love is NEVER the same for two people. It is ever changing over time as the relationship continues. It is not love that changes but it’s the way we interpret it changes. 💕

‘CAUSE SHE’S WAITING

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My love be careful while traveling towards me.
I’m still waiting for you.
I’m excited to see your face and I wonder what you look like.
If you have different woman along the way, I’m not jealous for I know I’m the last woman for you.
Enjoy the journey but don’t caught and stuck for that woman.
I know the Lord in heaven will guide and lead you to me 
because He is the author of our love story.

By: Mars8red

Disclaimer: (This short letter was originally made last March 30, 2012)

21 Is The New 31

“It’s not about the years you’ve had in life, but the life you’ve had in your years.”

1. You’re weirdly offended when people say you look young. In your mind, it implies you won’t be taken as seriously, or that you don’t seem as mature or capable as you know yourself to be.

2. You find you always have (or had) to justify wanting a committed relationship while young. No, most people aren’t psychologically/emotionally ready for their lifelong partnership in their second decade of life, but numeric age and mental age are two different animals. This, you understand.

3. You desire a deep, once-in-a-lifetime relationship – a soul companion if you will.

4.  You have a few friends who are like family, but otherwise keep a pretty tight social circle. You can’t entertain or sustain shallow, half-relationships. You’re all in, or you’re out altogether.

5. You tend to love the simpler things in life: handwriting letters, physical books, date nights, clean linens, dinner parties with old friends. These things are your joy, and your purpose, and you’re grateful for every one of them.

This doesnt mean that you’re no fun (cause hey you will always have that wild side) but you just know when, where and to whom you’re going to show it and be it. It’s just that you’ve learned so much, heard so much and taught so much that other 20 something didn’t know YET. 💋

©ThoughtCatalog for the idea.

Someone else.

I saw you happy with her, I know because I can see it from your beautiful eyes. I know because you’ve looked at me like that before. I know because I can feel it, I know because I sense it, I know because I know you well and so I know you are already in-love someone else. 😌